It can be a tough pill to swallow at times, but I appreciate your no-nonsense advice.
He’s a total sweetheart and for the first time in a long time, I feel very safe.
He’s kind, attentive and affectionate- when we’re together.
He communicates with me daily, mostly through text message, to which I always respond warmly.
My question: We’re texting everyday, but he’ll wait FOREVER, (in actuality, 5-7 days) before asking to see me again. Is this a downside of dating a typical beta (i.e., no initiative) or is he just not that interested in me?
Do I continue to utilize patience or should I move on?
Dear Michelle, Thanks for reading “Why He Disappeared – The Smart, Strong, Successful Woman’s Guide to Understanding Men and Keeping the Right One Hooked Forever”.
Glad it turned on a few light bulbs in helping you realize how a few of your behaviors have been ineffective in forging a relationship with a man.
But I have to say that if I had to write the whole thing again, I would have taken a few pages to put in a caveat: This advice doesn’t work for every single woman in every single situation with every single guy.
Basically, WHD was written for alpha females who want to date alpha males.
It was a way to open your eyes about how the men you’re the MOST attracted to don’t necessarily want to date you in return.
And in the absence of giving yourself an entire personality-ectomy, the smartest thing you can do is a) be aware of some of your tendencies to dominate and b) find a partner who is cool with them.