Too many people use the fact that this woman has slept with a certain number a men that they personally deem too high as validation to dismiss this woman as a potential mate or a future great wife. Should the number of men she has slept with really help determine if a man should be with a specific woman?I say how many men she has slept with should not matter.
You can be with a woman who only tells you she only slept with 3 guys when in reality you may have to add a 0, or two 0’s.
You may never know and either way it shouldn’t matter. This should matter in the sense of being fully aware of it, but I support any man being with that woman if you love her regardless of what she may have.
There are women who have been with one man, and have gotten an STD.
“Hoe Stroll” is defined as a period of time where a woman is much more promiscuous than she has ever been or will be again.
Many times the stroll occurs in high school or college, but it varies for different women.
With that said, don’t expect all these women to reveal this information.
This is why the whole idea of using her number of past partners as criteria is unnecessary.
Yes I think waiting till marriage is the best thing to do (which I will discuss in a future post) but I still acknowledge the fact that many of us make a choice to engage in sexual activity before marriage.
Men “getting around” has pretty much been accepted as it is.
Women on the other hand get slandered, disrespected, and chastised for their choice to be promiscuous at any point in their lives.
I feel this is an unfair double standard and I refuse to judge them or cast a negative light upon them for their choice.