and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION. Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month. Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission. Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
I love his "tough love" - because sometimes it's hard to see how much power we actually have, and because so many "gurus" are afraid to say the truth about men and relationships.
If you've been frustrated and confused about why your relationships aren't working the way you want them to - this book will change your love life.
Coming from a man who's had so much experience helping women in real life, who has so many success stories in his track record and has a distinctly masculine point of view is just so incredibly valuable.
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys? Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission". Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval. Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her... When you do these things, you send a clear message: "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection". This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
'Why He Disappeared' is exactly what I would have wanted to write if I were a man...
Evan tells it to us straight - with humor, with passion, and in a way that will stick with you - that will actually make a huge difference for you.
We women have been sold the lie for so long that we have no power in relationships - and Evan turns that lie around and gives you your power back.
He not only gives you your power back, he shows you exactly how to use it - and what's even MORE important, how NOT to use it.