Hey Damon, I’m in a very confused situation right now, I have this guy whom I have been liked for a very long time.
I’m definitely scared to share my feelings with him, I’m super shy around him. I understand how pining over someone you’re not able to see or touch can put you in a mental, emotional, and sexual prison, and I’m not one to judge someone who finds themselves in that position. I didn’t agree at first, but she promised to make me French Toast and bacon the next time I visit her if I heeded her request.
I want to open up really badly but I fear that he may just be telling me what I want to hear because of his situation. Every time I think of the future I always go back to the fact that he could be just playing with me. And, since I can’t pass up free pork, I’m actively attempting to decrease the snark.
Thing is, Pining, subtracting the sarcasm makes me unable to answer your question the way it needs to be answered. ” Like, this guy is a known hater who just happens to be very tiny.
OK well when he got back my mom told me he came looking for me.
I never expected him here so soon, but now that he is I’m like a teenager again…But of course since I have had so much bad luck with men I don’t want this to end up like the previous ones.
He tells me stuff like he wants to be with me, how he wants to take me out, that I’m going to be his wife, all the things that sound good but I’m scared because a little known hater told me that a man that just got out of jail will tell you anything. Sincerely, Pining over a Parolee Dear Pining over a Parolee, Sounds like your emotions are all locked up.
That scares me because I had feelings for him before he left and now that he’s back the feelings are stronger. The jury is still out on whether there’s an actual future between you two. My mom occasionally reads these columns, and last week she asked me to try — for a week — to be a little kinder when responding to certain questions.
Since I was unable to respond because my kids father tore the letter I just put him as outta sight outta mind, sort of.
I thought about him from time to time but that’s it…
He made a big impact on me because he never tried anything with me, he never propositioned me for sex with or anything.
It was weird he made me feel like a teenager all mushy and stuff, and I liked it because I never had that feeling for anyone before, not even my kids father…and at the time I was being treated horribly by my kids father and I was just in a hard place…..