Instead, keep your options open to keep your sanity and remind him that you are a prize to be won.When you stop over-investing too quickly, you’ll start getting the kind of affection and attention you crave.HELPING YOU CHOOSE A PARTNER WISELYIt’s hard to see the red flags when there is only one guy on the horizon.
It’s the biggest mistake women make, and you need to stop it – right now!
– and start dating many men at the same time until you have the commitment you want from the man who is right for you.
Here’s why: NO MORE NEEDY VIBE THAT PUSHES MEN AWAYWhen you have all your hopes and dreams wrapped up in any one guy, it’s natural to fear losing him…and losing you.
You become obsessed with every phone call, jump when he says jump, and change from the attractive, interesting woman who intrigued him into someone needy and clingy he feels pressured to check in with.
Once we meet a man we really like, we women tend to dive right in.
We want to give our hearts, mind and very soul to a man, and meld together into a perfect relationship.We give away our exclusivity before a man gives us the commitment we want.When we close off our options with other men too soon, we actually sabotage our ability to get the commitment and intimacy we so desire.These red flags become landmines over time, and suddenly you’ve wasted a lot of love and affection on someone who isn’t deserving of you.Dating is about getting to know different people until one special person emerges as the cream of the crop, and you both decide to take things to the next level.You get to CHOOSE if he is the right man for you, and have the time to find out who he is and how he will treat you.