Dating a loner girl

Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. If you are considering meeting a girl and she tells you she's more of a loner, is that a red flag? Do you prefer girls who are more outgoing and friendly with other people? I have found that the men that I am the most attracted to or is the most attracted to me fits into the same category. She may feel comfortable enough with herself that she may not feel a need to use social situations to validate her sense of self. Someone who is comfortable in a social setting, treats others well, yet also is comfortable enough with herself so she can enjoy and appreciate solitude. I'm not sure about most guys but to me that would sound like she's either been hurt or like most probably just tired of kissing frogs so to speak.

I'm a weird loner, have severe emotional problems, lack social skills and the world would probably be so much better without me but I know most loners are you like loner girls or are they a turn off?

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Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... OP I am somewhat of a loner also, I go in spurts where I want to socialize then I like time for just me. Certain messages come across as to whether she is comfortable with herself enough to be by herself, or if there might be a dark cloud of fear surrounding her.

I can't go ANYWHERE in public with someone who is anti-social, because that person is fighting against being a part of the experience of going out!! If a chick wants to be alone, fine, I will leave her that way - ALONE. If you are considering meeting a girl and she tells you she's more of a loner, is that a red flag? Do you prefer girls who are more outgoing and friendly with other people? Yet, they tend to make us special and even attractive to those few individuals that appreciate them.

TIt seems ok for guys to be loners, but not girls since we're "supposed" to be more social. Aloofness may not be endearing to everyone, but I can imagine there are many that would be perfectly content to go camping in a secluded spot for the weekend and fish or throw stones into the stream while a partner read a book. I'm not sure what difference it makes, though, whether it is a turnoff. It can be terribly difficult to reinvent ourselves. If it is a turnoff, then so be it, because I really don't see the need for cosmetic surgery to attempt to get rid of it.Patience with ourselves, our bodies and each other is a required part of life.Like the website infers "there are plenty of fish in the sea."I dont mind socialites, but actually prefer a girl who can, and does, make time for herself, and doesnt need to be in the thick of things all the time.I've found that of the women I've met, those that had to be around a crowd all the time were trying to compensate for being, let's say, "cast out" when theyw ere younger...or are simply one of those who are afraid they'll miss something if the skip the party. Some don't like the hustle and bustle of urban areas. For a woman to be a loner, we're talking about a social outcast, or a a person who is anti-social.Nothing wrong with being a loner, unless you simply lack social skills that keep you from mingling with society, then perhaps it's time to focus on that before trying to meet someone special. Women like to be liked, they like to be popular, they like to be well-thought of. Sorry, I can't go out on the town with someone who is anti-social. Each of us has unique characteristics that won't be understood by the majority of people.


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